After you send a proposal, send three short follow-ups: an offer to walk through it, a note with one useful detail and a question, and a close-the-loop email that makes a no easy to send.
Put all three dates in your calendar the day the proposal goes out. The calculator below writes the dates, skipping weekends, and fills in the emails.
Step by step
1Ask for a decision date when you send
In the cover email, ask when they expect to decide. A date they gave you makes every follow-up easier to write and easier to receive.
2Put three dates in the calendar
A suggested schedule is 3, 7 and 14 working days after sending. It is a starting point, not a measured best practice; move it to fit the decision date they gave you.
3Follow-up 1: offer a walk-through
Check it arrived, and offer a short call to go through it.
4Follow-up 2: add one useful thing
Answer a question clients often have, such as what happens in the first two weeks, and ask one question back.
5Follow-up 3: close the loop
Ask whether to keep the proposal open or close the file. A no is easy to send, so people answer.
6Log the outcome
Mark each proposal won, lost or no answer, with the reason if you have it. That record shows which parts of your proposals to change.
Free tool
Follow-up schedule writer
Enter the date you sent the proposal. It gives you three send dates, skipping weekends, and the three emails filled in.
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Why proposals go quiet
A proposal that gets no answer is rarely a firm no. More often the client is comparing firms, waiting on a partner, a lender or a board, or simply busy. A follow-up gives them an easy way back into the conversation. The aim of each email is a decision, either way, so you can plan your workload.
What each follow-up is for
Email
Purpose
What it must not do
1. Walk-through offer
Catch questions early, while the proposal is fresh
Restate the whole proposal
2. One useful detail
Answer a likely question, invite a reply
Add new scope or a discount
3. Close the loop
Get a yes, a no or a new date
Sound like a last warning
Write the cover email so follow-ups are easy
Most of the work happens when you send the proposal. A cover email that does these three things makes every follow-up shorter:
Names the person who will decide, and copies them if they are not the one you have been talking to.
Asks when they expect to decide.
Offers a call to walk through it, with a booking link.
Knowing who can decide matters for the whole project, not only the proposal. AIA Contract Documents makes the same point about changes: understand the client's decision-making authority so the right person can decide in time. The decision log guide builds on it.
Keeping the schedule without remembering it
The simplest way is three calendar reminders on your own calendar, created the day you send, with no guests. The calculator on this page gives you the dates. A fuller version reads a Proposals sheet (project, client, date sent, status) each morning and prepares the due follow-up as a draft for you to read and send. Nothing should go to a prospect unread.
When to stop
After the third email, stop. Mark the proposal closed in your log with the reason if you know it. If the client comes back later, start again from the walk-through offer. A closed file with a note is more useful than a proposal that sits as maybe for months.
A proposals log
Keep one row per proposal: project, client, date sent, decision date they gave, follow-ups sent, outcome and reason. Five or six columns are enough. Over a year, the log shows patterns no single proposal can: which project types you win, how long decisions usually take for your clients, and which reasons for a no come up again. Those patterns are evidence for changing your proposals, rather than guesses.
Outcome: won, lost, no answer or withdrawn.
Reason: in the client's words where you have them.
Next check: a date, if the client asked you to come back later.
Using AI to adapt the emails
An AI assistant can rewrite the three templates in your own tone, or adjust follow-up 2 to answer the question this client is most likely to have. Give it the template and two lines about the project, and read the result before it goes. It must never add a fee, a discount, a date or a promise that is not in the proposal. The Admin Prompt Pack has prompts for client emails that follow the same rules.
The three follow-up emails
Each one is shorter than the last. Replace everything in [square brackets], and never add a discount to a follow-up.
Hi [First name],
Checking that the proposal for [project name] arrived safely. If it would help, I can walk you through it in a 20-minute call: [booking link].
Best,
[Your name]
Follow-up 2: one useful detail
When: About 7 working days after sending
Subject: [Project name]: what the first two weeks look like
Hi [First name],
One thing clients often ask is what happens right after they say yes. For [project name], the first two weeks would be [first step, for example a site visit and measured survey], then [second step].
Is there anything in the proposal you would like changed or explained?
Best,
[Your name]
Follow-up 3: close the loop
When: About 14 working days after sending
Subject: [Project name]: keep the proposal open?
Hi [First name],
I have not heard back on the [project name] proposal, which is fine. Should I keep it open, or close the file for now?
Either answer helps us plan. If the timing has moved, tell me when to check back.
Best,
[Your name]
Frequently asked questions
How many times should an architect follow up on a proposal?
Three is a reasonable rule of thumb: enough to get an answer, few enough not to annoy. We know of no reliable study specific to architecture proposals, so treat both the count and the gaps as a starting point.
Should I offer a discount in a follow-up?
No. A follow-up is about the client's decision, not your fee. If they raise price, talk about scope: what could change in the services to fit their budget.
What if the client gave me a decision date?
Use their date. Send follow-up 1 a day or two after it, and space the other two from there.
What if they say no?
Thank them, ask in one line what tipped the decision, and log the reason. The pattern across several lost proposals is more useful than any single answer.